On August 24, 1901, a woman named Mrs. Ella Earnest died of an overdose of cocaine and morphine in Wichita, Kansas.

Ella had been living in Wichita on and off for a few years, and the women she lived with in the seedy red-light district of the city knew her as Ella Ruffin. The women said that Ella’s overdose wasn’t her first, and she intended to do it.

Ella’s death certificate. Source

On the surface, and to the local papers, Ella was just “one of the earth’s unfortunates, who had allowed herself to drift into the swift channels of debauchery.”

The news reports were crass, there was no obituary printed, and Ella’s family did not claim her body.

The Wichita Star, Wichita, KS, Aug 30, 1901

Ella is buried in an unmarked grave near no one she knew.

Ella’s grave is located in Maple Grove Cemetery, Section K, Lot 144, Grave 3, approximately somewhere in the yellow circle. For perspective, the marker on the left for Margaret and Maud Hemphill is Grave 1, and the stones behind the circle facing the other direction are Graves 5 & 6., all located in Lot 144 of Section K.

Martha/Mary Ella Ruffin (1872-1901)

Frank was a successful businessman in Ashland, and a business partner in several ventures with James Henry Ruffin, Ella’s father.

RUFFIN & ERNEST, MEAT MARKET
Ashland Weekly Journal, Dec 24, 1891
THE ASHLAND HOUSE
RUFFIN & ERNEST, Proprietors
Ashland Weekly Journal, September 27, 1889

Who Were Ella’s Parents?

Ella’s mother was a woman named Harriett Catherine Davis. Harriett was born in Missouri, and likely came to Kansas with her family after the end of the Civil War in 1865.

Ella’s father was most likely James’ brother, William D. Ruffin. Harriett seems to have done a little bit of husband swapping.

William D. Ruffin and (Harriett) Catherine Davis were married April 17, 1870 in Linn County, Kansas. Both were 18 years old.

The handwritten marriage license for William D. Ruffin and Catharine Davis dated April 17, 1870. Source

Two months later, in June of 1970, William and Harriett are listed as living together on the Federal census, 18 years old, with no children.

The 1870 Federal Census shows 18-year-olds William D. Ruffin and Harriett C. Ruffin living as husband and wife – or “Farmer” and “Keeping House.” The quality is terrible, so if you can’t make out the names on your own, you might have to zoom and squint (or trust me). Source

Thankfully we also have the state census records to help piece some things together. The 1875 Kansas Census more clearly shows W. D. Ruffin & Harriett C. Ruffin, now both 24 years old. On this census, we can also see that a child, listed as Martha E. Ruffin, has joined the family.

This is Ella, born June 1872.

1875 Kansas Census lists W. D. Ruffin & Harriett C. Ruffin, 24 years old; Martha E. Ruffin, 4 years old. Source

Something must have went wrong with Ella’s parents. I wasn’t able to find any clues as to exactly what happened, but we can see the result. William filed for divorce from Harriett, he left town, and Harriett married his younger brother, James. But not exactly in that order.

According to news reports, William left Kansas for Oregon around 1877 to be a sheepherder. His divorce from Harriett wasn’t published in the paper until November 1881.

William Ruffin vs. Harriet Ruffin, divorce. La Cygne Journal, La Cygne, KS, Nov 26, 1881

1881 seems a bit late to divorce, considering on the 1880 Federal census, not only do Harriett and James appear together, but Harriett is clearly listed as the wife of James, and Ella (now Mary E.) is listed as his daughter.

1880 Federal Census records show James Ruffin as the head of household, living with Harriett and Mary E. (Ella). Both list their ages as 27, though they would both be 29. This could have been an error by the census taker. Source

I wasn’t able to find documents confirming a marriage between James and Harriett, other than another census record. In 1900, they said they had been married since 1873, just a year after Ella was born, 4 years before William left town, and somehow a full 9 years before a divorce decree with William was finalized.

1900 Federal Census records show James and Harriett married for 27 years, or since 1873. Ella would have been 1. Her husband, James F. Earnest, is also listed on this census record, but by this date, Ella had already left. Source

We also have local news reports to help piece together the puzzle. William came back to Kansas occasionally to visit his daughter, Mrs. Frank Earnest.

W. D. Ruffin visits his brother, James H. Ruffin. William also visits his daughter, Ella. Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Aug 28, 1890

James was also referred to as Ella’s step-father in at least one news report.

Based on these records, it seems somewhat clear that Ella was born to William, but raised by her mother Harriett and her uncle James.

James was the operator of a few hotels in town, including the aforementioned Ashland House, Clifton House, and the Queen City Hotel. Although I have no direct evidence of it, there is some historical indication that the Ashland House and the Queen City Hotel doubled as brothels and saloons.

Prostitution is a part of Kansas history, and many prostitutes (some forced) worked at hotels in cattle towns, like Ashland. Prostitution was tolerated in Kansas cattle towns, and almost treated as necessity because it was so important to the local economy. Income from prostitution supported local businesses, like The Ashland House, and businessmen, like James and Frank.

Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Dec 26, 1889

I have no evidence that Ella was a prostitute, but she was accused of being “of easy virtue” (or open to sexual advances), was documented having relationships with multiple men outside of her marriage, and died in a brothel in the red-light district of Wichita, so it’s possible she was comfortable with this lifestyle because she was raised in it.

It’s also possible that Ella was was sold into marriage early as part of a business proposition. Women were often considered property or servants at this time, so it’s possible that Ella was viewed this way, given she was married twice before age 16, and we know that one of those men was a business partner of her step-father, suggesting the possibility of some kind of arrangement.

James Franklin Earnest (1863-1941)

James Franklin Earnest (Frank) was born in Texas on September 26, 1863. He worked alongside his father as a laborer, first as a wheelwright (building and repairing broken wagon wheels) and later as a farmer. He only attended school for about three weeks, and was not taught to read or write.

Frank migrated to Kansas sometime in the early 1800’s and quickly made a name for himself. Frank was the “Ernest” in the “Ruffin & Ernest” partnership that owned several businesses in town. He supplied the meat, the ice, and the hotel for residents of and travelers through Ashland.

Frank had been in trouble with the law in the past for stealing whiskey, cows, and horses. Sometimes his father-in-law would join in on the action. Not everyone believed that Frank was a thief, based on the tone of some articles.

Frank was “kidnapped” aka arrested for stealing horses he said belonged to him. Ella had a five month old daughter at this time. Ashland Weekly Journal, Ashland, KS, Apr 12, 1889

Sometimes, the charges were dismissed without consequence.

Charges against Frank for stealing whiskey were dropped, three months before he marries Ella. Ashland Weekly Journal, Ashland, KS, Oct 14, 1887

Frank was not only a purported criminal, he was a tough cowboy, determined to keep Kansas wild, and apparently this was known across the state.

Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Apr 14, 1893

He was also reported to have a coyote-killing bulldog which “should be a warning to coyotes that it is not healthy for them near Ashland.” I’m not sure why the local paper was publishing messages to coyotes, but the message seemed clear: Frank had a reputation as a man you did not want to mess with.

The “warning to coyotes” was published one month before Frank shoots and kills Sid Jackman. Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS Dec 28, 1894

When Frank married Ella in 1888, he was 25, and had just opened up a billiard hall in Ashland with Ella’s father, which provided whiskey and other forms of entertainment to locals and travelers. Ella was about to celebrate her 16th birthday.

Who Were Ella’s Children?

Ella gave birth to three known children while with Frank. Their first daughter, Myrtle Aldoe, was born in 1888 and died in 1889, just after her first birthday. Ella was 17.

Myrtle was never recorded on a census, and I could find no birth, death or burial records for her. If not for this news article about her death, there would be no record of her existence.

Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Nov 28, 1889
The weirdest baby announcement ever. Published in The Ashland Journal, Ashland, Kansas, February 13, 1891.

Carl, Frank and Ella’s firstborn son, is listed on the 1895 census. Ella must have given birth to another girl around 1893, which we only know from the same census record, but no name is listed.

1895 Kansas state census record shows M. E. Earnest (Ella) along with Carl, 4, and an unnamed female child, aged 2. Above Ella, you can see her parents, J. H. and H.C. Ruffin, and her husband, J. F. Earnest, living in a separate residence.

It’s not immediately apparent, but Ella and her children aren’t living in the same house with Frank at this time; they are living in a separate house, and Frank is living with Ella’s parents.

1895 was a wild year for Ella and Frank, though the trouble probably started long before that. For Ella, this seems to be the beginning of the end.

Sidney Johnston Jackman, Photo dated Nov 9, 1892; taken by Israel & Baldwin, “The Tourist Photographers”, from family photo album of Sara Slavin Porter. http://www.ancestry.com

The State’s theory was that Sid had been feeding information to the local sheriff about Frank’s cattle thievery, leading to Frank shooting Sid for essentially ratting him out. The entire theory revolved around Frank stealing cattle, Sid working as an informant for the government, Frank discovering that Sid was an informant, and then shooting and killing Sid because of it.

But Frank gave another motive.

Frank said on Friday, January 25, 1895, three days before Sid was killed, he had been working near town when Sid approached, offering him a drink of whiskey. Frank obliged, but said that when Sid handed him the bottle, he noticed Ella’s wedding ring prominently displayed on one of Sid’s fingers.

Frank said he went home and confronted Ella about Sid having her ring, and she came up with a story about Sid borrowing the ring from her because he wanted to “fool a girl in the north part of town.” Frank didn’t believe Ella’s story, but believed she had cheated on him with Sid.

The next day, Frank said he saw Sid and Ella together in town on Main street. It’s unclear exactly what Frank witnessed, but others testified they believed Sid and Ella were alone together for about 15 minutes.

Afterwards, Frank saw Ella in a local store with Sid, so he chased her down, “overtook” her, took her home, and “upbraided” her for being alone with Sid. Frank said she denied being with Sid at first, but eventually confessed that she did meet with him, but only to get her ring back. She also told Frank that Sid had been bothering her, following her around, and bumping into her every chance he could. Ella said that she had told Sid to leave her alone or she would have to tell Frank what he was doing.

Ella claimed Sid said “if you tell him, I’ll kill the son of a bitch.”

While we’ll never know what Ella actually told Frank, or the reasons why she told him what she did, I think it’s possible that this story wasn’t exactly what happened between Ella and Sid.

Frank and Ella stayed at home that weekend without leaving the house, and the tension must have been unreal. Frank claimed that he had lost faith in Ella by this point, and that he “did not sleep with her” after this, but the sheriff would later testify that he saw Frank and Ella being affectionate with one another while he was in custody. The sheriff also testified that Ella visited Frank in jail at least twice, which Frank’s friends found surprising, since he publicly claimed he was done with her.

A few days after Sid flaunted Ella’s ring to Frank, Frank went into town and took his gun with him. Frank and a few friends, including Sid, got together to drink some whiskey at Frank’s butcher shop. At some point, the whiskey ran out, and they all pitched in to get a new bottle. The other men dispersed to get the whiskey, leaving Sid and Frank alone together in the butcher shop.

The only witness to the murder was Frank, who claimed he shot Sid in self defense. Frank said once the other men left, he said to Jackman, “Sid, you are trying to break up my family and have said if I interfere you will kill me; now what are you going to do about it?” He said Sid stood up, made “a gesture,” and said “God damn you, I will kill you.” Frank said he then pulled his gun and fired twice.

Sid’s body was sent to Texas, where he was buried in the historic Kyle Cemetery.

The jury deliberated for about five hours before returning a verdict condemning Frank to death for first degree murder, which was said to be a surprise to everyone. The jury was more swayed by the testimony about stealing cattle, not about the love affair between Sid and Ella.

But based on Frank’s testimony, the reasons why he shot Sid are clear.

Frank reportedly turned pale upon the reading of the verdict, but later told the sheriff, gesturing to his heart “I feel alright here.”

Frank was sent to jail in Ashland before being transferred to Lansing, where he stayed until 1897.

Frank Earnest Pardoned by Governor of Kansas

Ashland Clipper, Ashland, Kansas. March 6, 1896

As one of his last acts as a one-term governor, Edmund Needham Morrill pardoned Frank Earnest in January 1897. Frank was released from prison and allowed to return home to his wife and children, almost two years to the day that he shot and killed Sid.

Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Jan 15, 1897

But Frank didn’t go home. It’s believed he packed up and moved to Oklahoma, taking Ella’s parents with him, almost immediately upon his release.

And after his release, Ella made a spectacular escape from Ashland that was reported across Kansas.

Ella Runs Off With Archie Oglesby

In the fall of 1897, Ella went to her step-father’s stable, ordered up his full team of horses and his best buggy and left town with Archie Oglesby, a young newlywed from Oklahoma who had arrived in Ashland just the week before.

The Robinson Index, Robinson, KS, Sep 10, 1897

The two didn’t make it very far. The Ashland Clipper reported that the pair left on a Tuesday evening and were caught less than 24 hours later. They only made it to Meade (about 35 miles) before being arrested. Both were returned to Ashland to answer for the theft of the horses and buggy.

Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Sep 3, 1897

Newspapers loved this story. Variations were printed across Kansas, and because the story could use a little embellishment to make it more interesting, some reported conflicting and wildly incorrect information.

By all accounts, no was was stolen, and no one was 40 or 18. Ella was 25, Archie was 23, and they appear to have gone together willingly.

After being returned to Ashland, Ella was released and she immediately hopped the train that eventually stopped in Wichita, where she would reside on and off for the next four years.

Archie was held in jail for five days before being released without being charged. His wife Lulu came up from Oklahoma, but he refused to speak to her and took off on foot. He made it six miles before anyone caught up to him and forced him to speak with his wife, though the outcome of their discussion was never published.

Meade Globe, Meade, KS, Sep 16, 1897

Just like the journalist in 1897, I haven’t had luck tracking down what happened to Archie or his wife after this.

This is also where I lose track of Ella’s children. Ella skipped town and her two children, Carl, now 6, and an unnamed baby girl, now 4, are said to have been left with their grandparents, James and Harriett Ruffin.

But I can’t find them.

The 1900 census shows Ella’s step-father James, her mother Harriett, and her estranged husband Frank (James F.) all living together in Shawnee, Oklahoma, where they would all live out the remainder of their lives. Carl would have been 9 and his sister would have been 7, and if they were living with their grandparents, we should see them here. But the children are not here.

Ella’s children don’t appear on any census record again that I could find.

They are just gone.

The Death of Ella Earnest

Ella arrived in Wichita sometime after her failed elopement with Archie. We know this wasn’t Ella’s first time in Wichita; during his trial, Frank told of a time when Ella ran off to the Wichita fair without his permission.

Ella started getting in trouble pretty quickly after escaping Ashland. Just a month after she left, it was reported she had been arrested twice; once in Wichita, and once in Kingfisher, Oklahoma. Her crimes were not mentioned, but a $10 fine in Wichita would be in line with the punishment for being an “inmate of a house of ill fame,” i.e. a prostitute in a brothel.

Ashland Clipper, Ashland, Kansas. October 29, 1897

Information on Ella was scarce after 1897, but during the final months of her life, she made the Wichita papers several times. It was suggested then that Ella had attempted suicide 3-4 times before, and her depression was due to “general dissatisfaction with her own life” and “disappointments in love affairs.”

The first time Ella’s suicide attempts made the news was in June 1901, where it was reported a doctor spent hours trying to save her life. Despite suicide being a fairly common occurrence on Tremont Street, Ella’s attempt was apparently so sensational, it was worth a big headline and a lengthy report in the paper.

The Wichita Beacon, Wichita, KS, Jun 13, 1901

Some news reports were much shorter and slightly more vague. “Vaccinated herself against living” is a pretty interesting way to say “attempted suicide.”

The Wichita Star, Wichita, KS, Jun 14, 1901

On August 24, 1901, Ella overdosed on morphine and cocaine again, but this time, she died. Ella was 29 and staying in a brothel on Tremont Street in the red light district, close to where she had overdosed just two months before.

A very useful article. I used this to start my research on Ella. It is the only place where her maiden name “Ruffin” is mentioned.
The Wichita Eagle, Wichita, KS, Aug 25, 1901

Again Ella was reported to have suffered from the effects of the drugs for hours, but a doctor was unable to save her this time.

The Saturday Evening Kansas Commoner, Wichita, KS, Aug 29, 1901

Other newspapers reported Ella’s death in a different way, focused on what a shame she was to her family, and how disappointed they must be in her.

The Wichita Star, Wichita, KS, Aug 30, 1901
The journalist in Ashland minces no words and makes it very clear what he thinks of Ella. Her mother must think her birth was a misfortune. Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Aug 29, 1901

And from what I can tell, her family was ashamed of her, just like her hometown paper reported.

Ella’s body was not sent to Shawnee, Oklahoma for burial, but rather placed in an unmarked grave in Wichita, Kansas with no funeral. Her parents never had any other children, but their graves were engraved “Mother” and “Father.”

Ella’s grave remains unmarked.

After Ella

1897: Frank, James and Harriett all relocate to Oklahoma, abandoning Ella.

1900: Frank is Chief of Police in Shawnee, Oklahoma, a position he will hold for at least a decade.

190?: Frank marries again; second wife is Marie.

1904: Frank’s wife Marie gives birth to a son; they name him Carl. Frank’s first son Carl remains missing from the record.

1905: Frank’s wife Marie gives birth to a son; John Morton.

1913: Frank’s wife Marie gives birth to a daughter; Mary Inez.

1917: Frank’s wife Marie gives birth to a son; James Vernon.

1927: Ella’s mother Harriett dies in Shawnee, Oklahoma at age 75.

1941: Frank dies in Shawnee, Oklahoma at age 77.

1943: Ella’s step-father James dies in Shawnee, Oklahoma at age 90.

Sources:

Martha Ella Ruffin Ancestry Tree

Edmund Needham Morill

Sinners and Saints: Vice and Reform in Kansas, Kansas State Historical Society

Cowtowns, Kansas State Historical Society

Prostitution and Changing Morality in the Frontier Cattle Towns of Kansas

Sydney Johnston Jackman, Find a Grave

James Franklin Earnest, Find a Grave

Ella Earnest, Find a Grave

James Henry Ruffin, Find a Grave

Harriett C Ruffin, Find a Grave

Kyle Cemetery, Texas Historical Markers

Case of State vs. Hez Frost and Frank Earnest, Ashland Weekly Journal, Ashland, KS, Oct 14, 1887

Ruffin & Earnest opening pool hall, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS. Mar 15, 1888

A Cowardly Arrest, Ashland Weekly Journal, Ashland, KS, Apr 12, 1889

Myrtle Earnest Dies, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Nov 28, 1889

Frank Earnest Purchases Ruffin’s Share, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Jul 29, 1892

Frank Earnest “Wild Wooly West,” Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Apr 14, 1893

Warning to Coyotes, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS Dec 28, 1894

Murder in the First Degree, Ashland Weekly Journal, Ashland, KS, Jun 28, 1895

Sid Jackman Shot, Meade Globe, Meade, KS, Feb 7, 1895

The Earnest Case Decided, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Nov 15, 1895

J.H. Ruffin Petitions for J.F. Earnest Pardon, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Mar 6, 1896

Home Again, Ashland Weekly Journal, Ashland, KS, Jan 14, 1897

Frank Earnest Free, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS Jan 15, 1897

An Elopement, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Sep 3, 1897

Oklahoma Man Steals a Woman, The Wichita Eagle, Wichita, KS, Sep 7, 1897

Archie Oglesby, The Robinson Index, Robinson, KS, Sep 10, 1897

The Elopers Discharged, Meade Globe, Meade, KS, Sep 16, 1897

Woman Steals a Husband, The Coffeyville Daily Journal, Coffeyville, KS, Sep 17, 1897

In Pursuit of Ella, The Elk City Enterprise, Elk City, KS, Sep 24, 1897

Ella Earnest Arrested in Kingfisher, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Oct 29, 1897

She Didn’t Die, The Wichita Beacon, Wichita, KS, Jun 13, 1901

Ella Earnest, The Wichita Star, Wichita, KS, Jun 14, 1901

Took Two Drugs, The Wichita Eagle, Wichita, KS, Aug 25, 1901

She Won Out, The Wichita Star, Wichita, KS, Aug 30, 1901

Suicide Suffers Greatly, The Saturday Evening Kansas Commoner, Wichita, KS, Aug 29, 1901

Ella Earnest Died, Ashland Clipper, Ashland, KS, Aug 29, 1901


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3 responses to “Uncovering Ella Earnest”

  1. Mary Elizabeth Harbold Avatar
    Mary Elizabeth Harbold

    Hello! I am a great granddaughter of Frank and Marie Earnest. My cousins and I have shared your article amongst us after my sister discovered it on Mother’s Day, yesterday. We are all a little disturbed to learn this, as we typically heard more flattering stories. I am grateful for your historical research and your ability to piece together the likely truth by reading between the lines of the published accounts. Could you please let me know the name of the cemetery in Kansas where Ella is buried? Id like to inquire about marking her grave. Ella Earnest will be remembered. Thank you!!

    1. Hi Mary, Ella is buried at Maple Grove Cemetery in Wichita. The cemetery office would be happy to help you locate her burial spot and get it marked. It’s also GPS’ed on Find a Grave, which should take you right to the spot. Please let me know if I can be of any assistance to you in locating any documents or in your effort to mark her grave! I am in Wichita and would be happy to help.

  2. Mary Elizabeth Harbold Avatar
    Mary Elizabeth Harbold

    Thank you!

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